A Tall Order

Recently at a show at the Comic Strip in New York, I walked on stage and noticed a women immediately whisper something about me to her friend.   I could tell the whisper included me because she did it right as I got on stage and was looking at me as she shared her secret.  Audiences grossly underestimate how much the person on stage is aware of.  I can do 45 minutes and, without talking to anyone in the crowd, tell you who’s on a first date, who else got beat up by a girl in 8th grade and who’s shorting their friends on the bill.

Sometimes I let things go other times I inquire as their may be comedy gold in ‘dem there whispers.  I surprised the ladies when the first thing out of my mouth was “what were you guys talking about?”  When she said, “oh nothing!”, a little too fast, I knew it was something a little embarrassing thus a humor extraction was called for.

Perhaps I should have let that sleeping dog lie.  Instead I poked it with stick of persistence.  I wanted in on their secret.  Did she think I was cute? Maybe she always wanted her boyfriend to sport a goatee like mine. Maybe she thought I would be a great subject for her naked portrait class.

Turns out they were a mother daughter team from The Netherlands.  And “the what” mom had  whispered to the daughter as I got on stage was “Wow, they are short over here!” Comedy gold with me as the butt.  The guy before me was sub 5’8” so yes I would classify him as short.  But I’m 5’10” and while I’ve never been accused of being a giant (well once in Papa New Guinea),  I’ve never been called short.  The average height of a Netherlander man is 6’1”, tallest in the world.*

5’10” used to be exactly the average height of U.S. men.  So I’ve always been too dignified to mention that I’m really 5’10 and 3/4”.  I’ve also been too cool to mention that I play basketball like someone who’s 6’2”.  And that’s not even a skill thing.  I have a long wing span.  My outstretched arms are equal in length to a person who’s 6’2”.  Besides, If I wear shows I’m basically 6 feet even.

I guess subconsciously I knew I’d have to break out my short guy excuses one day.  Why would I have them cued up at the ready if I didn’t?  I was hoping that day would come later.  I blame all this on steroids in the food.  Next time someone says “oh nothing”, I might just let it go.

*The average height of a Netherlands man in 1850 was 5’4”

2 thoughts on “A Tall Order

  1. Scott Goldman

    Yeah, I was 5″11 3/4 at age 35′ 5″11 at age 45 and fuck if I know how this happened but 5″10 at 57. Once dated a married woman in Florida ( never a smart move) and her hubbie was 6’6. From Australia, great for self esteem…..I figured I must have something he doesn’t ( his wife) but God help my boney bums if he ever got a hold of me…..so, how do you handle a gig when anxiety and sadness comes calling the day of the performance

    • Administrator

      Anxiety and sadness can help a show. They can help you not be in auto-pilot, which is the true enemy of performance. I hope the 6’6″ guy never got to you. 🙂

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